An Old Friend
I bumped into an old friend some moons ago. She said I’ve grown thinner, despite the scales telling me otherwise. I think the additional mass has gone to some other (hidden) parts of my body where only a *select* few have visual access to. And that is actually quite a lame thing to say when someone asks you what happened to your workouts. Believe me it is. And then she remarked that some people *do* get beefier, but not obviously so when they’re fully clothed. I think she was just being nice.
We had a simple meal, and a whirlwind conversation throughout. It felt like we were in some kinda Yattafying-capsule that could take us back and forth in time. We talked about how neither of us really made an impression on each other when we first met. As a matter of fact, I don’t even remember if we started speaking in English or Chinese back then. If it was Chinese, I would have most probably embarrassed myself badly. If it was English, she might have found me snobbish. All I know is, in the months that followed, our acquaintanceship hardly progressed.
But when I saw her it felt like we had known each other since last century. It was refreshing. We talked about our friends, friends’ friends and mutual friends whom I rarely hanged out with. If you asked me, I’d have preferred talking about her and her family instead. And then I contemplated telling her about how I felt about her. That moment I wish I had a bottle of vodka with me. Hadn’t felt like that in ages. I considered the fact that we still had a long night, so I decided to postpone it a little longer. And postpone it, I did. Yet again. I told you I needed booze. I pretended everything was cool.
I looked at her under the dim light, and tried to find that bruise she told me about. I hope she didn’t notice my curiosity. And then a waiter interrupted. Not the same guy this time, but the same question alright. I said “You’re the second person to ask us this.” He apologized and we laughed it off. That was when I was struck, once again. I hadn’t seen her smile or laugh a lot, but when she did I’d get a little emotional. She presented me with a little gift that night - something I couldn’t use everyday, but keep. As I walked her to her doorstep - a nice little place up in a brightly lit neighbourhood - I wished the day didn’t have to end.
P/s: Melodramatic? It’s the Monday…
18 Dec 2007 narrowband

i like this kind of post. it makes me remember my past memories too!
hmm… i know the booze part well in situations like this.
Ooh, this sounds so romantic. ….”It started over coffee,
We started out as friends, It’s funny how from simple things,
The best things begin…” - lyrics to Bryan Adam’s I Finally Found Someone. - that’s how my hubby and I got together and this was our wedding song….hehehe.
When I had gathering with my old friends we did talked about many things that happened at pass.. Chinese new year is coming.. we may have gathering again..
So, she is ok for you ? ;)
Aww… so.. did you tell her? Then? What happen after that? Haha.. so curious. Didn’t know Vid is so emotional.. Haha..
*gives a BIG BIG BIGGGG A-H-E-M-M-M-M-M-M*
:p
Yo, young man, u dun need vodka… tsk tsk… hv to teach u how to khao lui ahh?? (if really need, then SOS me lor… :P)
Pinksterz - I’m glad you enjoyed reading!
Esther - You do? Did it work for you? ;)
Bkworm - Ahh… I absolutely LOVE that song! The Mirror Has Two Faces! Beautiful song, beautiful lyrics. I remember looping it in my room so often! Such a sweet pick… your wedding song!
Aiks waitaminute… the song was a soundtrack from The Mirror Has Two Faces and if I’m not mistaken it was released in 1996! Hmmmm… ;D
Keeyit - Yes Chinese New Year is one of the best opportunities to meet up and keep updated with each other, and remind each other of the lasting friendship to date.
Haha, your question is an unfair question. It suggest a kind of disrespect for her, but I know you don’t mean it ;)
Cybie - Haha… Then we both went back to our (respective) homes and lived happily ever after. Why so curious? Ei, ‘Vid not human meh… you need to go Sg liao then only realize wan isit :(
Angel - You wan Strepsils? Or Fisherman’s Friend? Wah… you offer free lessons ka? How do I sign up?!?!?? KWUIKKKKKK!
Yo don’t wait too long ohh :P
Kah Yau! Kah Yau! Kah Yau!
Nice read btw.
nampak sangat there is romance in the air? haha
Hai… why must need vodka only can tell her one meh? Angel, faster pass him some tips! *nudge nudge wink wink*
Reading this post makes me think of my baby… Lawl.
very sharp, eh? u’ve followed my blog for so long, surely you know the reason why the time ‘discrepancy’, yah?
that’s so cute! i wanna know more, r u gonna meet up with her any time soon? i wanna know more!!
hehehe… i felt someone here fall for her :-p
Anyway, dude don’t think too long and no action… grab the opportunities and go for it… ;-)
opps.. sorry if that are too much from me.. sorry ya.. :)
Echo Eileen. :P
I wouldn’t mind sponsoring you a small bottle of vodka. Haha!
i’d throw in a mini flask with the vodka innit for you!
handy for the pocket and emergencies like these!
shall we make preparations for next year? ;D
*starts singing*
Love is in the air, it’s everywhere you look around….
Reminds me of the lovey dovey novels I read so often.:P The part before the hero gets the girl * grin*.
Che-cheh - You like to read entries like this? Hehe…;)
HC - Mana? hehe… Takde lah “_”
Rinnah - You *must* start blogging about your baby already! I want to read!
Bkworm - I am not really sure, actually, but it is okay :D I might have skipped that part, heh ;)
Eileen - Where’s the ‘cuteness’? Haha… Anyway we talked about this on MSN already anyway ;)
TZ - Ohh ahah… thanks for the suggestion… however I don’t think that’s applicable in my situation, haha!
Keeyit - It’s nothing, Keeyit; Don’t worry about it!
Jason - Hehe, I can’t be carrying a bottle of alcohol around wherever I go now can I? :p
Candy - Preparations? Haha… you have your way with words, you know :) No I do not think there will be fireworks.
Giddy Tiger - *Starts dancing and shaking his bum* Lalala~
Charngyee - My version abit incomplete one :p Ah I’m happy my writing reminds you of the novels you read…:)
more entries like this..we want to know the real you :) and her ;)
Nice post.. I can imagine the picture of it by reading it.. Really melodramatic lol
Next time when going out with her remember to bring some vodka with you! Store it in a small bottle will definitely make you blurb out whatever you want to say. Oh but remember to drink it one shot lol :P
*exam madness.. so pardon for my randomness XD
I’m glad you guys enjoyed reading. I enjoy re-reading too. LOL.
I do not think there will be many of such posts in the future, but only time will tell. So do come back often… haha!
Btw, Emily, you comments always make me smile :). I will seriously consider your suggestion!! :p